Why we Need to grow in Self Awareness


When we grow in self-awareness our life becomes a lot easier. This is a unique and fantastic way to expedite expansion of your leadership skills because it deals with the sabotaging component of the unconscious bias you carry. There is nothing like this available in the current market place, and nothing like this that is more relevant for thought leaders in todays’ society.

The new you, will embody greater clarity on how to take full responsibility for all aspects of your life. All too often as we achieve success at work, our home-life brings challenges! Or our health suffers in some way as we attempt to juggle all the balls safely. This gives us a lopsided enjoyment of life, if a particular area does not feel as fulfilled or enriched as other aspects. The knock on affect is that on occasion we are forced to become inauthentic as we try to suppress or hide the aspects that are not working well- leaving us trapped in a silo, unsupported trap.

We, at Spark Expansion Consulting, wish to bring balance to all areas of your life- so that you can “have it all” and feel totally authentic and wholesome!! This is much more than mind over matter. It is a total embodiment of joy and exhilaration that you feel in your daily interactions.

We will look at the soft skills you use when making tough competitive decisions so that the fabric of trust that underpins the culture in your organization is not inadvertently affected. Emotional Intelligence will catapult quickly.  The language that is required to maintain the unspoken protection/comfort people seek at home, can become tainted with stress, and lack of appreciation for one another, so we look to address that too. Both home life and work life are looked at simultaneously to ensure sustainability throughout.

Our effort at Spark Expansion Consulting is to offer you innovative solutions that are technically ahead of their time.  Solutions that have been known to the wise for a very long time, that have been distilled into an easy to use practical way for the 21st century. All our work together will lead to lasting behavioural changes, increase in compassion for oneself and others, increase in creative ideas, and an improvement in relationships throughout your life. All of this will happen effortlessly as your self awareness and consciousness increases.

Behaviour Patterns and their sabotage


Old behavioural patterns are often holding us back in our relationships with others and ourselves because of the unconscious judgments, expectations and desires we carry. Without us becoming consciously aware of what is going wrong, we remain stuck.  Once we become more self aware of our unconscious responses ( that tend to run on autopilot), our relationships improve with everyone, in particular with ourselves. We begin to manifest our creative ideas, without being burdened and greater fulfillment/peace unfolds. Our health improves too.


In this personalized one on one program we help you:

  1. To identify and release systematically the unconscious blockages that are relevant to your life. Your mind cannot access these on its own
  2. Learn how to break the chain to the root causes of such challenging occurrences, so that you can be unleashed from stress
  3. Eliminate the old programmed reactions  from the cells of your body- so that irrevocable behavioural changes occur effortlessly from within, that are permanent and do not need to be reinforced through mind reminders
  4. To feel more peace and calm within as you connect with heightened consciousness
  5. By-pass the mind, to get access to the ” how and why the mind” is responding in its current way, and look to progressively silence its’ sabotaging influence on your life.


It does not matter if your current responses to life are filled with exhaustion, anger, dismay or a sense of confusion/frustration. Everything  has a cause- we simply assist you to become aware of how the emotion is arising so that the triggered reactions can stop in your daily interactions. At other times we are suppressing our real emotions and through not showing them, we become inauthentic in our own truth- which becomes a very painful way to live.

Any form of incongruence in your leadership style or rigidity in your protocols will be addressed.  We increase your self awareness so that childhood programming that might be unconsciously lingering can be shed. Also science now states that our unconscious responses can come from patterns  inherited from earlier generations. Our profound ways of assisting will cut the chains to these reactions too.

You will embody a new strength and resilience in your outlook for the future….our intention is to set you up with skills to be the well rounded CEO of your life. Our work will help you to be an authentic leader of immense integrity because all of the changes you embody will come from a growth in consciousness.


To lead ourselves effectively we should feel fulfilled


This is an intense deep dive in a short three month plan, personalized to your needs. We aim to understand your aspirations from an emotional point of view and nurture you from an authentic and honest place!  It is not about being logical and learning how to put on a tough face as we endure pressure, and attempt to stay resilient. No. Our work together will break social protocols of what is acceptable and what is not- but instead will assist you to genuinely become refreshed and re-energised for life.

We evaluate your life plan objectives mindfully in line with your current success and move forward step by step chipping away at the underlying state hidden deep within you. The feelings of aloneness, the feelings of relentless pressure that you carry, any anxiety or worry around making mistakes, maintaining your reputation, and achieving continued success are all addressed, so that you can truly feel whole within.

We will stretch you outside your current comfort experientially to remove mind made feelings that are unknown to you!  Irrevocably the cells of your body are helped back into their natural state.

According to a respondent in a recent Oxford Survey from the UK University, being a balanced CEO requires: An almost insane combination of extreme confidence, bordering on arrogance, combined with complete humility.

This is the inherent state that unfolds when we embody growth in consciousness, because the virtue of consciousness is that it helps to increase our ability to stay humble as we share our own genius gifts. Consciousness also helps to neutralize the impact of old stories, thus releasing a new form of health and confidence within.


As the root of our challenges are dissolved, we feel calm, present and whole


The new type of confidence you begin to embody cannot be influenced detrimentally by outside life circumstances. It is a confidence that is not dependent on opinions, success or achievement. It is a form of confidence that is peaceful, non aggressive, and extremely responsive- with almost a genius quality within it. Total calm and lightness is thus felt within.

This wholeness arises as your masculine behavioural traits are harmonized with your feminine traits. The beauty of this is that your patience takes precedence and your trust in life increases. Your control reduces in a positive way, and your internal pressures lessen too. Your goals are attained more easily without having to push so hard. You become more creative and inspirational.

Any disabling or niggling health issues begin to be healed as a byproduct of your evolution. Anxiety, stress and worry begin to dissipate, as the calm within grows.


So grateful for your giftedness Kindi. I’m always amazed at how you see the connection between the challenges and the learning hidden within them. Your presence and precise words have this way of triggering a deep inner understanding and clarity. I know it has for me. The family dynamics we find ourselves in is very rich territory. It’s too easy to struggle with it though and miss the opportunity for transformation. Glad you are bringing education and guidance that is so needed. Lila Haris, Kansas, USA


Benefits at a glance from the Silver Package growth in Self Awareness


Your male and female traits will begin to align, allowing you to achieve goals in a receptive and patient way

Your ability to by-pass your busy mind and silence its’ tension will increase

Your clarity heightens through greater connection with your “inner knower” as you grow in consciousness.

You will learn new active meditative tools to offload the stress and worry in great speed

You will quickly dis identify from pain points and old negativity in your life

You will experience a greater level of energy and more productivity as leakages in your psyche are plugged

You will embody a new form of stamina and resiliency

You will become more authentic and humble

You will experience greater peace within

Your communication and relationships with others will improve and you will feel greater compassion for yourself and others

You will find the voice inside your head begins to quiet down from its old stories and stress

You will find that life will flow with greater ease, and challenges will lessen as you grow in self-awareness.

You will find that you are leading with less push in your actions, and find that people and events will be drawn towards you, i.e. they pull towards you!

More pull, less push. More vulnerability, less macho posturing is the way of the future…CEO who responded to an Oxford Survey.


Inward Leadership




Structure of the Three Month Silver Package

  1. Have an initial coaching session to evaluate your most pressing needs, and go through a 10 page self evaluation exercise that concentrates on your desires, needs, expectations and triggers. We will also discuss family patterns during this review and create a personalized action plan
  2. Be taught body awareness points and be educated on how to access unconscious thoughts in your body, their influence on you via the “law of attraction” and be taught how to dissipate their negative power.
  3. Be taught how to find clarity using FATYQ, helping you to have less doubt and pressure in your decision making. Understand the science behind this process.
  4. Be taught how to use the shorter Dalian Method process, to learn how to access what has been suppressed
  5. Be shown the flow chart of how expectations and needs, influence our hidden core beliefs and programmings
  6. Experience a self empowering dalian method session to experience a deep transformation and gain a new awareness in your body which will cut the chain to an old behaviour patten. This will be sustainable, leading to lasting change internally and externally (this work will all be at a cellular level)
  7. A coaching session to become more aware of the changes that are unfolding in your life, as a result of the previous dalian method process and be shown how to keep track of the benefits that are arising. This coaching will have particular emphasis regarding relationship and business goals to be achieved.
  8. Practice with an active meditative exercise to help identify the residual stress/fear in your body and be guided how to clear them up, layer by layer
  9. Follow up with another practice with another active exercise- NO/YES to help heighten the relaxation inside your body and be shown how to vary this if your mood is requiring a new direction.
  10. Follow up with a second dalian method session to consolidate the first awareness and shed inherited patterns with the new action steps required in your life
  11. Conclude with a coaching session on how best to implement these changes in your home life and your work life and how to influence other colleagues in a positive way
  12. Detailed support outside of the regular meetings together via a personalized blog. All of the above appointments are in person, or on skype during the three months.
  13. Collaborate to create action steps in between each appointment to become independent in the use of the Dalian Method, FATYQ and other active meditations introduced during this package. These will act as homework assignments. Some of these appointments can be added to the plan to ensure completion at an additional cost.
In 2015 and beyond, The Oxford Survey states: Top-down, hierarchical, macho leadership gives way to a more responsive, humble, authentic and inclusive view of senior leaders.


If you are ready to experience profound liberation in only three months…..we would be delighted to work with you!

Available to you at a reduced cost of only  $4695.

Email kindi@kindigill.com to organize your registration.

or if you wish to register immediately