RE-CAP from Mada Eliza Dalian Talk on 17 FEB 2018 at the Canadian Association of Professional Speakers

 

OUR HUMAN PURPOSE

  • Our souls are all here to experience- “What each persons’ soul needs to experience- THAT is our purpose!”
  • What happens normally is that we look for purpose based on the programming we live in. The moment we are born, we come with knowledge and knowing of what we are here to experience.
  • BUT THEN, WE COME INTO A CONDITIONED REALITY- and in that conditioned reality, we start learning how the world works, and then we FORGET WHAT WE KNOW WE CAME HERE FOR
  • And we begin groping in the dark, trying to find back the way, and we get sidetracked by all these ideas that we adopt along the way! And this makes the journey a lot harder……
  • And this is what creates a lot of suffering, and pain because we are going in a direction that our soul is not really wanting to go!
  • It is important for us to go back to basics……………
  • Mada watched her grandfather die, so after he passed, she thought whilst in bed that night ………….”I am going to die one day too” “and the world is going to continue just the way it is continuing now” so if that is the case, that everyone is going to die, I want to know who I am? “So what am I doing here” “Where do I come from?”  “Where am I going to go?”
  • Mada knew “if I don’t know WHO I AM, then my life is going to be lived in vane”
  • At five years old- she connected with her original purpose: to find out who we are! But although we all know this we forget it
  • We go to school, we follow all those conditionings we have to follow, we learn competition, we learn to be better, we learn to get high marks in subjects, so all that stress!!!!!!………….

 

THE INFLUENCE OF THE WORLD WE LIVE IN

  • Mada adjusted to the western world in 1976, when she arrived at age 24, and overcame the culture shock, through creativity, by painting cartoon characters, on the walls of her daughters’ bedroom………
  • From USSR, Mada recognised propaganda- which helped her to become an explorer who never believed what she was told, simply through asking questions. This was the benefits from coming from behind the iron curtain.
  • If we agree to what we are being told, we are living by the conditioning that somebody wants us to live by!
  • EVERY HUMAN BEING IS BUILT WITH THE MECHANISM CALLED THE EGO, (it is a survival mechanism, based on fears- fear of death and fear of survival), however because we get identified with the mind- the ego, then we forget to connect with the being, which knows all the answers!
  • We try to get answers with the mind, but we don’t get the real answers until we connect with the inner being.
  • If there was no fear of death or survival, nobody would manipulate, nobody would try to fit into somebody elses’ ideas, everybody would live authentically, with their own gifts and creativity, their being, their experiences that they have brought.
  • THE WHOLENESS OF THE SPIRIT IS LOST WHEN WE TRY TO FIT IN, and we talk about mind/body/soul wholeness, but we don’t really understand “what does that mean!”
  • It is not about just eating well, it is not just about having positive thoughts, it is not just about reaching a goal!
  • What is that goal? Why we reaching that goal? Why am I doing what I am doing? Why am I reacting the way I am reacting? Why am I getting angry? Why am I afraid?
  • We don’t ask these questions…….and if we don’t ask, how are we going to find the answers?

 

EXPERIMENTATION AND EXPLORATION THROUGH LOOKING INSIDE

  •  So the main thing is, to scientifically experiment, to know, and find the answers for yourself.
  • People don’t like to look in……..
  • But if you procrastinate looking in- you are procrastinating on living your joy, freedom and full potential
  • Everything in life is mathematics. There is no other way to find that joy and freedom.
  • We need to know what the world of duality is all about, We would not know what negative and positive is all about, We have to start making friends with the emptiness inside, Meditation is a very important tool- the essence is “watching”, That is how we come to the gap- where we can see the positive and we can see the negative
  • Human condition so to speak is very complex
  • And yet it is very simple
  • It is complex because of the mind, and simple because of the mathematics of how life works
  • If we understood the mind, and we understood life, we could have a balanced life, and it then becomes an opportunity to explore limitless possibilities within
  • When you Find your purpose: once you know yourself, everything is fine——
  • But attachments, not thinking you are good enough, other peoples’ opinion of you- ALL THESE THINGS PREVENT YOU FROM KNOWING WHO YOU ARE, and they all become heavy like loads of layers of clothes that weigh you down, so you begin to wonder, “When am I going to live my own life? “
  • The experience we all need to have is that “my being cannot die”. That is when your ego dies, and you now know, the fear was just the ego that is afraid to die, and you get the realisation that the whole universe is you, there is no separation!
  • YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE, THEREFORE YOU ARE THE CREATION, AND THE CREATOR (with that knowing there are no limits anymore- you are no longer a resident of this planet but instead you are a resident of the whole universe)
  • With that awareness, it is total relaxation, nothing to do, nowhere to go, the journey is the goal. Everything relaxes, there is nothing to do, and the inner turmoil disappears
  • You stay in the NOW, LIVING MOMENT TO MOMENT- and accept, right now, this is happening, and the next, the next is happening.
  • You are left with no ambitions, but you are still breathing, so something has to happen, – you still need income to pay your bills.

 

BACKGROUND TO THE DALIAN METHOD

  • Going through hardship in life, Mada’s own Cinderella story, helped her to build resilience, and this gives her a great understanding of human suffering.
  • THERE IS A BLESSING BEHIND HUMAN SUFFERING, but we need to know what the blessing is, and HOW to ACCESS it!
  • In 1995, Mada reconnected to a childhood ability, where she could hear what people were thinking inside. For social reasons we don’t say the truth, and we don’t want to be honest, because we don’t want to hurt someone. MADA went back into exploration mode at this time- when she accurately heard the thoughts and the suppressed emotions that were part of her partners’ unconscious in India- whilst practicing energy work with him. She wanted to understand how things work in the body. She knew something was missing in the energy work she did in India. She wanted to get to the bullseye- the imprint that was actually running the program in the body.
  • Unless, you go to the body to the imprint, a 180-degree shift in your reality cannot arise. The mind can only help you to “understand” something but in order to have a shift, you HAVE TO GO INTO YOUR BODY AND deal with the imprint that is in the cells of your body. You have to see what is happening inside you to truly benefit. Someone else seeing the cause is useless.
  • For example: HOW DO I CHANGE THE CAUSE OF WHAT IS CAUSING MY ILLNESS?
  • Mada helped people with physical ailments- she would first look at the layers of the unconscious- she always looked for the real cause. And the real cause is all in the body, connected with a thought.
  • If you have a certain thought, and this is how an ideology works, you begin to wave the flag of that ideology, but it is just an idea.
  • We all have experiences starting from the moment of birth, and for every experience, you make immediately a conclusion about that experience.  Eg. this is not good, I should not be doing this anymore! That conclusion then becomes imprinted in your body and becomes a program
  • The BODY IS A COMPUTER AND IT HAS LOTS OF PROGRAMS
  • So with a program running, then no matter what your cognitive mind wants to do, or does, or tries to do with big effort, that program/belief is not going to let you
  1. Find your purpose
  2. Find your gifts
  3. Have the courage to actually do what you have to do

 

THE FEAR OF DEATH AND ITS’ INFLUENCE ON OUR BEHAVIOUR

  • HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE NEVER BEEN AFRAID AS A CHILD? – how about fear of darkness?
  • HOW MANY OF YOU SAID TO YOUR PARENTS I AM AFRAID?
  • HOW MANY HAVE SAID WHAT YOU ARE AFRAID OF?
  • HOW MANY OF YOU KNOW WHY YOU WERE AFRAID?
  • The why that comes from thinking, like I felt some ghosts, or I felt some darkness, or I felt somebody did something, THAT IS ALL A CONCLUSION, IT ALL A BELIEF
  • The reason you are afraid is because you are afraid to die……..that is the core
  • So if you think, I know why I was afraid, it is all part of the belief. THE REAL TRUTH IS THE FEAR TO DIE
  • But a child cannot say I am afraid to die, and the child does not know that.
  • So, YOU as AN ADULT then tries to accommodate, and not take the risk to show yourself, because there is fear of rejection, fear of peoples’ judgments, but what is the base of that fear? What is underneath that fear?
  • The bulls eye point is THAT YOU ARE STILL ATTACHED TO THE EGO, and you don’t know that the ego is afraid to die, it is afraid, so it can survive.
  • We don’t trust existence! How do we learn to trust? WITHOUT TRUST, HOW CAN YOU LIVE YOUR POTENTIAL!!!! If you don’t trust yourself, how can you live your potential?

 

THE DALIAN METHOD AND HOW IT HELPS

  • Mada began to Explore- to find answers – HOW DO I GET TO TRANSFORM the emotions and suppressed thoughts, and how do I get people out of the story of their emotions, into their witness and into their consciousness-so that they can see the lesson behind their circumstances.
  • She knew if you have learnt the lesson, we don’t need that experience anymore. But if we don’t learn the lesson, the same life experience continues to happen, and we keep getting back similar mirrors to what we need to learn.
  • Gradually Mada founded a system- existence brings new methods when we need them, and all that is now necessary for a quickening world, and this system detoxifies the body of suppressed thoughts and emotions, goes back and forth through different parts of the body in a mathematical way, covering chakra points. (these are the seven energy points in the body, and each one represents a certain state of consciousness, and certain state of being) and many other points too. THIS METHOD IS CALLED THE DALIAN METHOD
  • WE HAVE TO SEE WHY CERTAIN THINGS ARE THERE inside us, WITHOUT DENYING ANY OF IT, BECAUSE IT IS ALL PART OF US.
  • For example- if you feel angry about something, it doesn’t mean it is bad. Maybe your anger is telling you, something is not right, but with our mind, we say, this is not acceptable and we have to put a lid on it, BUT THEN YOU DON’T LEARN THE LESSON, YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND WHY YOU FEEL ANGRY, YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND WHAT IS BEHIND THAT, AND YOU DON’T GET TO KNOW YOURSELF AND YOUR OWN STRENGTH, THAT CAN SAY, IF PEOPLE REJECT ME, IT IS OKAY!
  • You have to know, it is okay and “I am going to speak my truth”
  • Of course, if you are throwing your anger on somebody else, you also have to understand, why am I doing that? It is not somebody elses’ fault……..you are the one feeling it, why are you sad? it is not because somebody left you etc, people come and go all the time, we are all lined up to go, and eventually you become next in line! We are all going to go, we are all here temporarily, so why live in fear, when we can live? – in living completely and experiencing what our soul wants to experience, THEN WE ARE LIVING OUR PURPOSE
  • This system- THE DALIAN METHOD- helps you to come to that place, by gradually peeling away those conditionings, of so many years, so that you can come to start experiencing your inner strength, your inner truth, so you are not afraid to be alone,

 

 

UNDERSTANDING THE COMPLEXITY & SIMPLICITY OF LIFE

  • THERE ARE COMPLEX THINGS HAPPENING ALL AROUND YOU, how can you be in the center of that hurricane, without being affected by any outside movement, but simultaneously understanding the movement, so this is how WE CAN BE A HUMAN CONSCIOUSNESS, LIVING IN A HUMAN BODY, and helping other people, FIRST WE NEED TO HELP OURSELVES OF COURSE, and help them to come to their center of the hurricane.

  • That is where the stillness is!
  • The hurricane is there, the movement is constant. In the universe, the sound aum, comes from the movement in the universe…….that movement of planets creates the sound aum
  • WE ARE IN THAT SOUND ALL THE TIME, there is no such thing as silence.
  • The complexities must be explored because we have so many opportunities.
  •  First, we find who we are, and then we share our gifts.
  • We keep trying to do these things in reverse, and then we create a mess.
  • There are always two sides to the coin- so the mess we create, we have to remember that all the stars are born out of chaos,
    1. So be willing to go into the chaos
    2. With courage move towards chaos
    3. You have to face your own inner chaos first
    • The Dalian Method helps you do that, but in a quick and happy way. Happy way because it brings you to the moment of awareness, and once you come to that shift in consciousness, (From feet all the way up to the head- the whole body), it is then PERMANENT AND YOU CANNOT FORGET IT!
    • Once you connect to your inner consciousness, you know that as a knower, you cannot unknow! You know this because it is an inner knowing and not a mental knowing.
    • Our whole education system, needs to guide our kids, so MADA has developed versions for teenagers and kids, each version becoming shorter and shorter. With 15 mins a child with fear, goes through the system, and then they are a completely different child.

     

    THE SUMMARY

    • The bottom line, we choose all our experiences, to find our individual strength, and to know that we are indestructible, and we cannot die.
    • ONCE YOU KNOW THAT, THEN YOU RELAX, AND YOU GO OKAY, LETS SEE WHAT I WANT TO DO NOW?
    • And then the creativity continues, because existence, the universe expands, as it creates. So creativity of each person also, once you have found yourself, you help to expand the universe, even in small ways.
    • AND WE THEN KNOW THIS IS LIMITLESS, with all these incarnations with their PURITY OF creativity.
    • And with consciousness the universe expands, and we describe consciousness as light, and when you become fully conscious, that is Mada’s experience, the whole body turns into light. In light means what?
    • It means “Nothing” is unconscious in light
    •  What is darkness? It is not spooky…..and bad- it simply means there is lots to discover in that darkness.
    • Your own darkness, your own unconscious, is basically telling you, this is exciting, go in and find out, and the more you go in, the more you will discover, the more light is going to grow, the stronger you are going to get, the more life you are going to have!
    • As people work with the DALIAN METHOD, people feel more empowered, more grounded, more natural, more spontaneous- all of this is the right way!
    • Because the mind is the problem, and we are trying to solve with the mind, the same mind that created the problem- so like Einstein said, this is impossible.
    • The mind is like the dog who is chasing its own tail. The mind will always keep you in turmoil
    • In your inner being, in the stillness, suddenly you are home. From that place, you can solve anything without any problem! And that is where your gifts are, your potential, your creativity is there, everything starts there.
    • IT IS ALL THERE, IN THAT GAP- IN BETWEEN THE INCOMING BREATH, AND THE OUTGOING BREATH.
    • Life is simply a transition, but something never changes, and that is what we need to find. Bodies change, circumstances change, cities change, but YOUR CENTER DOES NOT CHANGE (doesn’t matter where you are on the planet)
    • We need to teach our kids these things, as unfortunately we have not been taught this in schools, and we need to bring this education system if we want to have a happy humanity.
    • IF A PERSON IS HAPPY IN THEMSELVES, AND THEY ARE LIVING FULLY WITHOUT ANY INHIBITIONS, how can there be any problem then?
    • People are simply not happy because they are not living themselves fully, and if you are compromising, so you will manipulate, and then you get manipulated too.

     

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