Individuality

Love and Conflict I love my kids – like so very deeply! I am sure you do too, if you have any. Love is that open sky that we all human beings float in. Yet, I do not always agree with them and their decisions. Especially when I feel they are…

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The Upside of Love Not Going Well!

   Failure of Love   I remember being at a workshop about 10 years ago, when the question was asked “What is available in the heart?” “What would you say is missing in the heart?” People answered with I have been hurt too much to love another person again, so I…

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Freedom

       Freedom Ahead of Love   It is strange how a loving parent will do so much for their child. Cook for them, drive them around, hug them, nurse their tears, encourage them, nurture them, want the best for them, surprise them…..the list goes on and on! However deep…

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Communication: The merits of authentic Conversation

It is amazing how nourishing a conversation can be. A chance to connect, share, be heard, be understood. This is hardly surprising, since I was listening to a TED talk today, talking about a 75 year study of 600 men that have been studied from age 19, that has confirmed that…

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The Secrets to Real Love

Love: We often feel that an outside event determines our happiness, and become enslaved by the world outside of us. We seek the idea of falling in love. We are hypnotized to find someone who can fulfill our version of the Cinderella story. Love songs, poetry, imagery, all feed into the…

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Know Thyself: Observations of an Ego

OBSERVATIONS OF AN EGO BY Kindi Gill    I have to make money I am afraid of the unknown My security is in money dummy, Since if I trust “I” will be gone!   The voice of the ego Is relentless in its desire to rule This voice knows where not…

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3 PITFALLS TO AVOID IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER

1. NEED: Ask yourself how attractive a need is? When someone wants something from you, how willing are you to give? Is it not more fulfilling to give when someone is not asking or demanding anything from you? Does it not feel more exciting and inviting to offer when someone is least…

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The Three Keys to Happy Children that love to talk to you!

Happy Children: 3 Keys to Great Communication. 1.Vulnerability to Love Wholeheartedly: The Heart It is really difficult as parents to acknowledge our vulnerable moments in a safe way.  We are the authority and our vulnerability can be frightening for our children to fully understand. If we worry too much about their…

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Overcome Fear: 7 Gifts Reveal themselves

The 7 gifts behind Fears There are seven main benefits or gifts hidden behind fears. These gifts surface spontaneously. The only effort that needs to be made, is to transform the fear. The rest happens by itself as a natural consequence and reward for our effort. I personally feel embarking on…

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How to find real love – DEEP INSIDE

LOVE “Lots of ways to reach God. I choose Love” ~Rumi When I first saw this picture I immediately thought about the love we display outside of ourselves, but this afternoon another perspective opened up…..an inward perspective. How easy do we find it to love the darkness inside ourselves? Do we…

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