Trust A child will steer his or her own ship confidently, provided they know how to trust themselves…..And so, HOW does one learn to trust oneself?? This is so important, as too often, we are being directed by the authority around us, rather than to be shown how to think for…
Family Outburst We had a family outburst recently. It has inspired me to share what I have learnt about anger over the last decade, especially the sort that is unhealthy for all. Anger is very difficult to deal with. Both as the person who is expressing it, and as…
Reactivity We “hear” happiness is an inside job, but this is VERY DIFFICULT to accept when your moods are so quickly affected by outside circumstances. A person insults you, and that provokes you to be angry. A person praises you, and that provokes you to be happy. This…
When we care for another soul, without criticism and judgment, we do not feel separate from them. Our heart and its openness keeps us feeling united and a sense of one-ness follows, whilst our soul is simultaneously nourished. This is unconditional love. Judgment and its link with Separation When we judge…
OBSERVATIONS OF AN EGO BY Kindi Gill I have to make money I am afraid of the unknown My security is in money dummy, Since if I trust “I” will be gone! The voice of the ego Is relentless in its desire to rule This voice knows where not…
Judgment by Kindi Gill 4 October 2015 She is bossy She is strong He is controlling He is argumentative She is insecure She is dumb He is miserly He is a user She is a people pleaser She is resentful He is jealous He is unsupportive She is needy She is…
“Anger…like a fire can burn up everything in sight. In the ashes are born many possibilities! We can stay stuck, or take responsibility to discover our triggers and transcend these tendencies” -Kindi Gill Anger – Is it Good or is it Bad? When I was younger I was frightened of anger…