Responsibility for Adults
If you multi-task and often have much too much to do as the nurturer, chef, chauffeur, pleaser, cleaner, administrator, organizer and fixer, you might eventually start to feel empty!
In modern times, full time work along with honouring the role as a parent, can leave very little room for self nurture.
If you are on duty 24/7, either physically or emotionally, and attempt to keep all the needs and conversations flowing without triggers, this can feel like a very big responsibility.
If you are neglecting your own needs deliberately, by putting yourself last on the “to do” priority list and often feel overworked, sometimes feel unsupported or misunderstood by your partner, the frustration that builds up can manifest as illness if not addressed.
Typical Female Patterns
By nature of the responsibility to nurture and be receptive and responsive in modern times, women can start suffering from common female syndromes:
- self judgment
- excessive worry
- internal guilt and shame
- erratic and illogical emotional responses
- not thinking they have done enough or are good enough
- desire to please others for external validation
- drive for perfection
- fear of things going wrong for their children
- an underestimation of their worth and self recognition
- a deep need for greater connection with their loved ones
- an inability to say a healthy “no”
- a willingness to be superhuman and hold it all together, whilst compromising yourself
A Desire for New Values
If you are a Mom that could do with being nurtured, heard and understood better you will benefit from the Dalian Method. You can enjoy:
- a better relationship with your partner
- children with greater self confidence or motivation,
- a boost in self-appreciation,
- overcoming past trauma,
- reduction in anxiety and stress,
- a drop in worry and eradicate guilt,
- fewer emotional triggers of rage, tears, complaint or upset,
- honest connection with your kids,
- clarity on how to manage a life altering disease or challenge.
Typical Male Traits
The patriarchal responsibility of providing for the family, along with excessive stress in pressurized work roles that demand long hours, can be depleting.
At times one can feel obligated to the societal system of making money, to achieve corporate success in a highly competitive world.
Decisions based on a logical evaluation of risk versus reward in the choices we make, can become a source of constant stress and complaint.
In modern times the responsibility to be “everything”, a charismatic, loving, supportive, available, participative father, along with having A+ grades as a great partner to our spouse at home is often new ground too much for many.
If you are a man ready for change that wants to
- be adored, cherished and not bossed,
- have a better relationship with your partner,
- find more compassion and forgiveness,
- release some anxiety and stress,
- drop your worry and feel trust in the universe,
- have greater connection, and better communication with your kids, and
- deal your life altering challenges more effectively, you are in the right place
then the Dalian Method can benefit you tremendously
Background Information
Background information: Why we create misery and find ourselves reaching for happiness, how to achieve Self Love, and experience Self Acceptance, how to transform Fear, and what are our challenging relationships trying to show us to become whole Partners/Marriage, How to understand Anger, and how to achieve self-induced Happiness and the 3 mistakes to avoid in our closest relationships.
Action
If you wish to transform any of the above consider the use of the Dalian Method and transform struggles and challenges into health, happiness and wholeness. If you are ready to invest and want transformative results on an individual basis, click here for a personal one-on-one
