Children Choose the Womb
Our children choose the mothers’ womb based on imprints they carry from their earlier incarnations. They will often inappropriately blame a parent for the way things have unfolded for them, not knowing that they chose the set of circumstances to help their own growth.
Nothing is accidental in life …..I am mesmerized by this understanding and by seeing its truth unfold time and time again. I am also in awe as to how the arithmetic of life unfolds, crazily accurate.
All is for growth and expansion of awareness.
The Mothers’ Psych Passes On
If a mother reflects on how she felt during her pregnancy, a big part of the insecurity in the personality of her child is based on her biggest fears and overall attitude whilst she carried that child. This makes sense right? After all the child is part of the mother at that time, picking up everything.
I now know for sure that is exactly what has happened with my three kids, since we have travelled backwards on these matters and have been able to join the dots and see the “Stories”.
( Had I been educated more about all of this earlier, I might have been more mindful during those nine months each time. lol
but I guess all is perfect since the kids needed to see these lessons )
Travel Backwards to Understand Yourself
Our three children have been very fortunate too, to see their original “unconscious” imprint prior to their birth, and have worked courageously to explore and become more conscious, so that those fears do not become an ongoing blindspot for them.
For example my fear and anger that my child might be rejected, is the same fear that my child also had into their early childhood…….My experience of being bullied during pregnancy, also became a fear of the child being carried at that time. My experience to not have my child be a disappointment, also transferred into the psyche of that child.
The same is true of expansive attributes too. They also are acquired in the same way- through our deeply connected oneness. So not everything can be seen as adverse.
Self-Sabotage Can be Released
All I can say is that I am so relieved to see some of these sabotaging things be resolved, as it sure increases the intimacy and connection we have with one another and also helps with mutual understanding of how our psyche’s are programmed. To retrace the steps of the underlying insecurities that affect our children and see why they get triggered and to watch those traits be transformed is just a priceless gift. A mothers’ dream! I feel so ecstatic about these unfoldments.
I am also grateful to the incredible gift of Mada Eliza Dalian and her genius dalian method. None of these revelations and revolutions would have been possible without her help..
Conscious Parenting
All I know is the lighter the new generation become, the easier will be their lives. They will always have things to learn, but they will have greater clarity when they already know where to look for understanding. Consciousness expansion is key to a life lived fulfilled.
May more and more families embrace conscious parenting and may more and more children have the good fortune to find their internal strength and overcome anxious driven qualities that stress them out! It is not a one time pill we take, but with diligence and courage, we can assist ourselves dramatically.
